Author: Paul Kuthe

In-Person Conferences are Back- Here’s how to Rock Your Next One!

The flight to Nashville is booked. Hotel room reserved. It’s literally been years since my last conference, so I’m SUPER stoked to attend The Business Made Simple Summit coming up!
You may have noticed already, but conferences are back!
Annual events are going hybrid as we cautiously step out into this post-Covid world and people are signing up in force to attend live and in person again.
Since it’s been a while, for this month’s blog I thought it would be fun to share some ideas about how to get the most value from your next conference experience.
Here are my top 5 Tips for rocking your next conference:

Get ready to squeeze every last drop of goodness out of the experience…

 

1) Buddy Up

Connect with fellow attendees prior to the event!
Who else that you know is going? Is there a way to reach out to those you don’t know beforehand? Try a shout-out on social media platforms like LinkedIn to see who else might be planning to be there. The more connected you feel to your fellow attendees the more comfortable you will feel. (and the more fun you’ll have!)
It can be so helpful to have a go-to friend or wing person to attend the event with. It makes everything more fun, plus you have another set of eyes and ears to soak everything in.

Consider making happy hour plans or dinner plans with fellow attendees to compare notes and share stories from the day. It can be easier to meet new folks when you’re not flying solo. Get yourself an event buddy. Share your goals and who would be a good contact for you, and then rock that next event as a team!

 

2) Don’t forget your business cards or…

The traditional business card is not dead. But, yours better stand out.
These days it can be as easy as scanning a quick QR code or transferring data directly from device to device, but there is still something to be said for putting a physical representation of you and your business into someone’s actual hand.
Be sure your cards are updated and all the info is current including any emails, phone numbers, or website urls.
You can also check out a range of options that let you create a digital landing page for your data so people can easily scan and upload your info to their device. For that, check out apps like

My newest preferred move is to have a QR code on my physical cards that directs people to your digital business card for the best of both worlds.

 

3) Prep your ‘One-Liner’

Here comes that dreaded question… “So, what do you do?”
You’ll have about a hundred opportunities to share a little about what you do at these things so it’s worth brushing up your ‘One Liner’.
That’s that one or two-breath intro to what you do that should both intrigue people and help position you as a qualified guide for folks that have the problem you solve. It’s easy to get bogged down in lingo or put people off by making the story all about you.
You see, they are asking about you, but really they are asking what problem you might be able to solve for THEM. We care about others, but we tend to remember people by what problems they can solve for us.
Try this…
Come up with a go-to answer as a response to “What do you do?” that works in three parts.
Problem. Solution. Result.
Tell them exactly what problem you solve, how you solve it, and what result occurs in a few sentences or less. Make the problem engaging and something you can FEEL. Keep the solution short and easy to understand. Then tell them what great thing happens next as a result.

You’ll be memorable, and engaging, and you’ll be giving away your business cards faster than the wait staff can hand out bacon-wrapped dates!

 

4) Establish your key objectives

These events can feel like a whirlwind. It can be like drinking from a firehose!
Be sure you take a moment before the conference (and at the beginning of each day) to identify and write down some key objectives for your time there. It can be easy to miss BIG opportunities because you simply failed to anticipate them.
It’s been said that “Luck is the combination of preparation and opportunity”

Take a few minutes to write down your goals for the event and then share them with your conference buddy so you can both be looking out for each other and helping one another achieve as much as possible and share in the high-five moments!

 

5) Lean into the social opportunities

I get it… Not everyone is automatically social. For those introverts, this can be the hardest part of any conference. There is a ton of unstructured social time at conferences and you can easily miss out on it if you’re not mentally ready to lean in to the opportunity.
A HUGE part of the conference experience is making new connections. This can be a tremendous opportunity to form new partnerships and collaborations, get support from more experienced peers, and form bonds that last a lifetime.
Embrace your inner extrovert and get out there! Be the guide and look for ways to help others around you. Have a bite with someone new at lunch. Make those plans for the evening gatherings. Check the local event calendars and find something fun to do with your new conference friends!

You’ll be glad you did, and you can bet opportunities will flourish from the experience if you embrace it with the mentality of a guide looking to help others win the day.

 

Whether we feel ready or not, conferences are BACK but don’t worry… everyone else feels a little rusty at these too. Embrace the discomfort and the opportunity with these tips in mind and you’ll get the most out of your next conference.

Keep feeding the flow!
-Paul
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Using the Power of Story to Set Goals

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Use story to accomplish your goals

I remember the first time I arrived in the Pacific Northwest as a 20-year-old kid just trying to figure out how to keep himself alive much less run the premiere whitewater extreme race on the West Coast.

One of the many jobs that landed in my lap along with The Oregon Cup, was to kayak to the start line of the Canyon Creek Extreme Race to run timing for the event.  This meant I had to somehow get myself and a synchronized stopwatch not just to the biggest waterfalls on the river, but safely start over 40 racers and then run the course for the first time blind, and solo.

I remember the moment I started the final racer.  I had been too occupied with getting accurate times and managing the event it hadn’t struck me until that moment.  I was going to have to run the biggest waterfall I had ever done for my first time all alone.

Everyone else was well downstream.  I closed my eyes and imagined every stroke.  I imagined the sensations, the timing, the balance and tension I would need inside my boat.  I imagined the mist rising up to hit my face as I fell toward the pool below bracing for impact.  Every. Single. Detail was there with vivid realism, to the point where it felt like I had already run the drop.

At the highest levels of sport, athletes and coaches have long been harnessing the power of the human mind for elite performance. We often hear about athletes visualizing their moves and outcomes before they compete.

Years ago, as a wilderness guide and action sport coach teaching people to run waterfalls in kayaks, I started having my athletes run training sessions in their minds just as I had at the big race. They would ‘practice’ sticking the moves they needed to win, or simply survive.

By creating something the human brain engages with, you create the potential for action. By telling a goal-focused story, you practice sticking the moves you need to win too.

Creating a detailed goal story can help reveal someone’s why, and what truly motivates them. It’s a great tool for strategic planning, and can help bring partners together toward a common goal.  (Even if they never intend on running a waterfall in their lives)

Give it a shot. A simple story could change your course for 2022 or maybe even your whole life!

As for my first big waterfall… each stroke fell into place on the slow approach to the lip.  Soon the stark horizon line sank lower and lower beneath the front of my boat until I could see into the depths below.  With one giant stroke and tightly held breath, I came crashing down into the pool at the bottom of the drop with a victory cry I’m pretty sure they could hear all the way to the finish line!  Phew!  Made it…

 

Visit: https://mailchi.mp/tributarycoaching/the-goal-story to create your very own Goal Story!

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